Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Broken Dreams

I'm gonna go back a little bit, sense this is an open topic blog, to Sanders and how his biggest point was that all writers live single, isolated lives. I was looking through the newspaper a couple days ago and found an article of a woman who has recently died. The title is Wanted to be writer but chose to be mom. The article is Catherine Rooney Sullivan who, like the title suggests, gave up her dream in a career as a writer and editor to raise a family. This got me thinking about the piece that we read by Sanders. I questioned why she would give up her dreams. I have always been taught to chase my dreams and never give up on them. Although, I like that she became a mother, I think she still could have pursued her dream to be a writer. It may have been more difficult writing with six children running around the house but I believe it could have been done, who knows maybe her children could have inspired something brilliant. All she needed was some place to sit and be alone to write, not necessarily a room of her own but a quiet place.

1 comment:

Betsy said...

Interesting article and I find it sad to think that a woman felt that she had to choose between fulfilling her dreams and having a family. Today, it seems like women can be wonderful, loving mothers who are also successful at other things. Being at an all woman's college, I feel that we are taught that we can do anything and everything that we want. I plan on someday having a family, while also being a big CEO of a fine foods market, and there is no question that I can do both! Certainly, this particular person made a choice to only be a mother, but I know it is possible to be a great mother while also pursuing a career. This is a sad story!